My 14-year-old is talking about stopping playing baseball. Which I hate.
I don't want to turn into one of those people who lives through children. Of course, there's the balance between respecting decisions they make for themselves and talking them out of decisions they might regret later.
He's been struggling at the plate this year. Of course, considering that his left eye is only at about 20/50 even with his contact lens, it's surprising how well he's hit in the past. So, some of wanting to not play anymore comes from not liking the feeling of not contributing. And I can understand that.
He's a really good fielder -- he ran down a bunch of balls in the outfield that normally drop in his division. But being "good field - no hit" doesn't get you far in today's game, particularly at his level.
He did win the "Sportsmanship Award" for his division, which was a nice thing. Of course, it was bittersweet. I mean, he was happy to get it. One thing about homeschooling is that there are fewer opportunities for individual honors -- and this was the first one. At the same time, he would've rather made the All-Star Team.
I can help a 6-year-old hit; I'm not so good at fine-tuning the swing of a more experienced player. Of course, I have some connections in pro baseball that I could call in or go to for help. The issue is this: I don't want to elevate the importance of baseball in our lives all that much. For me to call in my connections would make it seem so more important than it is.
The good thing out of this: He definitely wants to run with me.